Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, but when disagreements become repetitive, emotionally charged, or unresolved, they create distance. That’s where a couples therapist comes in. Couples therapy at Prosperity Counseling Services helps partners in Katy, Texas, move beyond surface-level arguments and address the...
Has sex taken over your life? We don’t mean in a good way, either. Maybe you can’t stop thinking about it to the point that inappropriate thoughts run rampant even in public. You know certain behaviors aren’t acceptable, but you find yourself constantly pushing the...
Phobias aren’t just a strong dislike. They’re intense, persistent, and often irrational fears of specific objects, situations, or experiences. As a type of anxiety disorder, phobias can severely limit a person’s day-to-day life, causing avoidance, panic attacks, and distress that feels out of proportion to...
Between hormonal fluctuations and societal expectations, women and men have very different experiences with their mental health. Despite growing awareness, society is still working on addressing women’s issues with the nuance they require. Some institutes, hoping to improve the situation, have begun to offer women-centered...
Individual therapy is a proactive step toward a more balanced existence and personal growth—you don’t have to wait until something is “wrong” to take the plunge. At Prosperity Counseling Services in Katy, Texas, we see many adults who come because something in life no longer...
Despite growing awareness, many men still face stigma when it comes to seeking therapy. Cultural messages often suggest that men should “tough it out,” suppress their emotions, or solve problems alone. But emotional resilience isn’t about ignoring struggles; it’s about facing them with courage. Specialized...
Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is often misunderstood, despite the numerous resources on the topic. Many people still associate the symptoms with general hyperactivity or chalk them up to being forgetful or lazy. This misunderstanding can be especially harmful to children and teens, who internalize criticism and...
At Prosperity Counseling Services in Katy, Texas, we understand that parenting can be both joyful and challenging—joyful when your child is thriving, and challenging when they’re not. If your child is struggling, take advantage of child and adolescent therapy. Our child therapists specialize in evidence-based...
Chances are, you were taught about boundaries as a child—things like not touching someone else without permission or giving people space when they’re upset. Personal boundaries are the mental, emotional, and physical limits we set to protect our well-being. They define how we engage in...
“I have to put on a happy face so my friends and family don’t worry about me.” “I still can’t believe he was depressed. He was always laughing and smiling!” “I can still have a good time with my friends, so what I’m feeling can’t...
Teens today face overwhelming pressure, from academics and social media to identity struggles and anxiety about the future. It’s no surprise that rates of depression, anxiety, and other mental health challenges are on the rise among adolescents. Parents and caregivers play a crucial role in...
Perfectionism is often praised as a strength, but behind the drive for flawless performance lies a dark side: anxiety, burnout, and low self-worth. At its core, perfectionism is less about doing your best and more about feeling like you’ll never be good enough, no matter...
True healing after trauma requires getting to the source of the issue, and this is found in the brain. When the problem is deep enough that talk therapy can’t reach it, you need an alternative method, and that’s where neurofeedback comes in. Neurofeedback is an...
Too many people think couples therapy is only for relationships in crisis. In reality, working with a couples therapist provides benefits for relationships at any stage, such as strengthening communication, learning how to address conflicts, and deepening emotional intimacy. If you’ve ever considered speaking to...
Life transitions, like career changes, moving to a new city, becoming a parent, or adjusting after divorce, are an inevitable part of growth. However, they often come with stress and uncertainty. Sometimes it becomes so overwhelming that we need to rely on a little outside...
If you’ve been researching therapists and their approaches, you may have come across the term “holistic.” It’s possible you dismissed those providers immediately, having an image in your head of someone wafting essential oils in the direction of a patient and asking them if their...
At Prosperity Counseling Services, we specialize in trauma therapy that goes beyond traditional talk therapy to create real, lasting change. One of the most effective and research-supported methods we use is EMDR therapy, or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. This innovative approach helps our clients...
High-functioning anxiety can be difficult to recognize, even for those living with it. On the outside, a person may appear driven, punctual, organized, and calm under pressure. Internally, though, they are battling constant self-doubt, chronic stress, and a mind that never shuts off. Because their...
Healing from trauma is not a linear process, and having the right support can make a world of difference. A trauma therapist plays a vital role in helping individuals navigate the often-complex path toward recovery… but what does that look like? Here at Prosperity Counseling...
A sudden sensation of dread stops you in your tracks. Your heart races even though you’re standing still. Your breathing quickens. You may feel like you're losing control or experiencing a medical emergency. The terror is all-encompassing. Panic attacks come on suddenly. While they are...
Alcoholics Anonymous subscribes to the belief that addiction is a disease and one that can only be overcome through the intervention of a higher power. Those who seek support from groups like AA or Narcotics Anonymous must first acknowledge the existence of their problem and...
I write this letter because it is National Eating Disorder Awareness Week (NEDA) and I couldn’t think of a better time to sit and reflect on the journey. Dear Kels, At the time of this letter, you are a 31-year-old Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) at...
In our fast-paced lives, it's easy to overlook the most crucial component of our existence: our bodies. We meticulously service our vehicles, tend to our electronics, and care for our valued possessions, yet we often neglect the maintenance of our own well-being. It's time to...
Introduction Attachment theory, popularized by psychologists Amir Levine and Rachel Heller in their book "Attached," offers profound insights into the dynamics of how we connect with romantic partners. This blog post highlights the key concepts of attachment and explores how understanding our attachment styles can...
You’ve probably heard the expression, “There’s no use crying over spilled milk.” This phrase is used to communicate that crying over something that has happened and cannot be changed is pointless. However, people do have a lot of emotions regarding current, past, and future events....
At this time of the year, people typically set goals or at least begin to do so, especially regarding aspirations related to finance, relationships, careers, etc. For some, it’s about getting married, having a baby, starting grad school, while for others, it’s about changing jobs,...
The Holiday season can stir up feelings and heighten a variety of mental health challenges like depression and anxiety. During this time of the year, you must be aware of your limitations and boundaries while practicing self-care. Whether you are gearing up to spend the...
Families have unique generational dynamics shaped by the experiences, beliefs, and traumas passed down from one generation to the next. According to Counseling Today, “Trauma does not have to be experienced at a community level to affect later generations”. While a family's history can be...
Have you ever had the experience where as soon as your head hits the pillow and you’re all snuggled up ready to get that good night’s sleep you need after a very long day of hustle and then your head explodes with a million thoughts...
As a therapist, I get asked a lot about medications. I cannot prescribe medication, but I can have conversations about what medication can do and how it can work in the brain. I can have conversations about whether or not it is warranted for a...
John Gottman, a leading researcher in relationship dynamics, distinguishes between two types of conflicts that couples experience: solvable problems and perpetual problems. Understanding this distinction is key to maintaining a healthy relationship. 1. Solvable Problems Solvable problems are specific issues that arise from circumstances rather...
Identifying the signs of childhood trauma is the initial step that opens a path to empathy and intervention. Whether these indicators manifest in yourself or someone you care about, it is essential to extend empathy and consider professional help. The following 7 signs can be...
Healing after trauma is a courageous and transformative journey that individuals embark upon to reclaim their lives and restore a sense of balance and well-being. Trauma can leave lasting imprints on the mind, body, and spirit, but with resilience, support, and self-compassion, survivors can navigate...
In the hustle and bustle of modern life, stress has become an almost inevitable companion for many. From demanding work schedules to personal challenges, stress can manifest in various forms and take a toll on our overall well-being. Here we will look at the relationship...
Continuing the conversation of my previous blog “How to Spot Addictive Behaviors in Yourself and Others” posted on February 7th, 2024, I wanted to give you an idea of different treatment settings in a brief format. After sorting out that you or someone close to...
Most of us have heard that we are a social species. What does this really mean, and how does it affect us and our mental health in the long run? Should building stronger and healthier relationships with our loved ones and our peers be as...
Our society places a tremendous burden on us to be “on” at all times. We are overloaded with responsibilities at home and at work, and we care for our partners, parents, and children. In our efforts to be everything for everyone, we often push our...
Few names stand as prominently in the realm of marriage and relationship counseling as Dr. John Gottman. Renowned for his groundbreaking research on marital stability and divorce prediction, Gottman has developed a framework that sheds light on the key factors that contribute to relationship breakdown....
By following this link, you are in one of three camps: 1. You're interested in the subject of addiction. 2. You're concerned for another person in your life, 3. You're concerned that you might be dealing with an addiction of some kind. Welcome, you have...
Have you ever had the experience where as soon as your head hits the pillow after a very long day of hustle and then your head explodes with a million thoughts at once? There goes that good night’s sleep! Have you ever had the experience...
The holiday seasons are mostly assumed to be joyous times to be immersed in the company of friends and family. This narrative is also reinforced by the myriad of media images depicting beautifully clad individuals bursting with excitement while shopping for gifts or hanging out...
Resilience is the ability to appreciate this rollercoaster of life by allowing ourselves to enjoy the high points while adapting to and bouncing back from the low points. It's a key component in maintaining emotional well-being and thriving despite the challenges we may face. Sounds...
For most people, the phrase “ADHD” conjures the image of a hyperactive eight-year-old boy who runs around the classroom, ignores the teacher’s instructions, and just can’t (or won’t) pay attention. But ADHD is complex – and highly nuanced. Contrary to its name, attention deficit hyperactivity...
Emotions are like major characters in a favorite book or movie–they can be complex and everchanging. Emotions respond to events, mysteries, people, and memories around them. In fact, emotions are usually in dialogue with other, under-the-surface emotions. Often, we like to label them as “flat...
Navigating the preteen years can sometimes feel tumultuous, overwhelming, and confusing as our children begin to go through many changes. Being a preteen is like standing on the edge of childhood and adolescence. They’re trying to figure out who they are, where they fit in,...
COVID changed our world in a myriad of ways. It brought with it an immense amount of pressure on our mental wellbeing. Several studies show a significant rise in mental health crisis since the pandemic and many are still grappling from its impact such as...
There's overwhelming empirical support for the fact that early experience is a powerful force in development. John Bowlby's attachment theory revolutionized our understanding of the initial connection between infants and caregivers. Attachment encompasses the deep and lasting emotional connection that develops between an infant and...
Group therapy is a type of therapy in which multiple people gather in a safe and supportive space to discuss and process shared issues, under the guidance of a trained mental health professional. Group therapy can be helpful for those dealing with grief, trauma, divorce,...
An expectation is the feeling or belief that something will or should happen. That sounds good, doesn’t it? But, if we’re being honest, we know that expectations aren’t always reality, and they can lead to disappointment, heartache, and frustration. Our early interactions and life experiences...
In today's fast-paced and digitally connected world, it's all too easy to overlook the significance of genuine human connection and the sense of belonging that comes from being part of a close-knit community. However, when it comes to mental health, fostering and maintaining meaningful connections...
In today's fast-paced and demanding world, self-compassion has emerged as an essential tool for navigating the difficulties of life. While the notion of being gentle and kind to ourselves may seem counterintuitive or even selfish to some, the benefits of self-compassion are far-reaching and transformative....